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So I wrote like three articles for a few sites. However most places have denied them. My question is.. How do I use an article to market when they say I can't put the marketing in the article itself? It is SOOOO stressful. I mean I am trying to market my recipe site.. but I can't put the name of the site into any of the articles.. How else am I suppose to get people to the darn site..



Help.. I really don't get this!